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Baldur's Gate 3: Full Romance Guide

Author : Peyton Update : Apr 23,2025

Baldur's Gate 3 offers a rich tapestry of romance options, enhancing the game's narrative and providing players with some of the most memorable moments. Whether you're looking for a long-term relationship that spans the entire campaign or a thrilling one-night stand, there's something for every player. This guide will walk you through the steps to pursue every romance option in Baldur's Gate 3, helping you avoid missing out on any desired relationships.

All Romance Options in Baldur's Gate 3

### Romance in BG3 Explained:

In Baldur's Gate 3, romance is inclusive, allowing every character to be romanced regardless of their sex. The game offers both short-term and long-term romance options, tailored to the specific character and your goals. Some characters offer a 'One-Night Stand,' while others require a more extended courtship. Be mindful, as you can be locked out of multiple romance paths if you don't complete certain tasks in time or if you engage in multiple relationships. Not all companions can be romanced in a single playthrough, so choose wisely.

All Romance Options:

The following companion characters can be romanced in Baldur's Gate 3:

Shadowheart
Gale
Astarion
Karlach
Wyll
Lae'zel
Halsin
Minthara

For short-term romance, the following non-companion characters are available:

Mizora
Guardian/Emperor
Drow Twins
Haarlep
Naoise Nallinto

How to Romance Shadowheart in Baldur's Gate 3

Shadowheart is a prominent romance option, often the first companion you meet post-crash. Her interest can be sparked early on by building her approval rating. Her storyline intertwines deeply with the main plot, making her romance a rewarding experience.

How to Romance Shadowheart:

Keep Shadowheart in your party to easily boost her approval.
Focus on actions that show kindness, non-violence, and respect for her privacy. Supporting her against Lae'zel early on significantly boosts her approval.
In Act I, look for the "...missed a chance to connect" dialogue. Alternatively, during the camp party after rescuing Halsin, engage with Shadowheart when she offers to share a bottle. Choose her when asked who you'd like to spend the evening with, and during the subsequent walk, avoid dialogue options that show disinterest to end the night with a kiss. After this, affirm your interest in a long-term relationship.
In Act II, whether you side with Selune or Shar, continue your romance. Support her new look if she goes with Selune, or engage in the nighttime event if she chooses Shar.
In Act III, complete her quest to trigger a final nighttime event involving a swim. Choose the kind dialogue options to culminate in a special scene.

Shadowheart Romance Special Notes:

Be cautious with other romantic engagements; under certain conditions, Shadowheart may end the relationship if you pursue others. Save frequently to navigate potential open relationships, especially in Honor Mode.

How to Romance Gale in Baldur's Gate 3

Gale, the wizard from Waterdeep, offers a significant romance path that intertwines with the game's main plot. His romance adds depth to the narrative and provides compelling scenes.

How to Romance Gale:

Rescue Gale from the portal northeast of the crash site.
Comply with Gale's requests to consume magical items, which occur up to three times in Act I.
During the magic lesson in Act I, choose the romantic dialogue options. Avoid being mean to keep future options open.
Before transitioning to Act II, support Gale during the Elminster cutscene to prevent locking yourself out of his romance.
In Act III, keep Gale alive and read "The Annals of Karsus" in Sorcerous Sundries. Speak with Gale before resting, choosing "Close your eyes," "Kiss Him," and "You're already everything I need you to be" for a romantic scene.

Gale Romance Special Notes:

Gale is not open to an 'open relationship' and will be displeased if you romance other characters.

How to Romance Astarion in Baldur's Gate 3

Astarion's charm and wit make him a popular choice for romance. His open-minded nature makes him a unique partner, offering both short-term and long-term options.

How to Romance Astarion:

Boost his approval by adding him to your party early and choosing self-serving options. Astarion appreciates sarcasm and generally disapproves of helping others.
Allow Astarion to drink your blood to significantly increase his approval.
During the party, engage with Astarion to unlock the first major romance scene. Choose dialogue options like "...saving lives is awful?", "...goblins would have thrown a wilder party", "...what's your idea of a little fun?", and "...let's do it. I'll see you later." Let him bite you to further increase approval.
After the first scene, show interest in the scars on his back and ask about their Infernal writing.
In Act II, take Raphael's deal for more information about his scars. When Astarion visits at night, choose "...about your undying love for me?", "So do I. More than anything.", "I care about you. Deeply.", and "You mean a great deal to me. No matter what you are going through."
In Act III, complete Astarion's quest. You can choose to let him complete the ritual or not, leading to a special scene if you are supportive. Completing the ritual allows you to become a vampire.

Astarion Romance Special Notes:

Astarion is the most open-minded long-term partner, tolerating romantic encounters with others.

How to Romance Karlach in Baldur's Gate 3

Karlach's romance is challenging to initiate but rewarding due to her compelling storyline. She is highly sensitive to infidelity once in a long-term relationship.

How to Romance Karlach:

Support Karlach against the fake Paladins of Tyr when you first meet her. Include her in your party early to build approval through kindness, understanding, and violence in defense of others.
Collect Infernal Iron quickly and bring it to Dammon at the Emerald Grove. After he helps cool her engine, express your disappointment about not being able to touch her, and affirm your interest.
At the party, express your feelings to Karlach. Later, suggest finding a way to kiss her, leading to a scene where you temporarily cool her with water. The next morning, affirm your commitment.
In Act II, find Dammon at the Last Light Inn and use all available Infernal Iron to further tune her up.
In Act III, take Karlach on a date to solidify your relationship.

Karlach Romance Special Notes:

Karlach is highly sensitive to infidelity. If she becomes angry, avoid sarcasm or meanness to possibly redeem yourself. Once her heart is fixed, you can commit to a long-term relationship with unique dialogue.

How to Romance Wyll in Baldur's Gate 3

Wyll's romance enhances his storyline, offering a deeper connection to his struggles and heroism.

How to Romance Wyll:

Build Wyll's approval by acting heroically, helping others, and supporting him in his quests, including his dealings with Mizora and his father.
Ensure you rescue Halsin and the Tieflings at the Emerald Grove. With high approval, Wyll will be available for a romantic night during the party.
In Act II, after a Long Rest, find Wyll dancing. Engage with the romantic dialogue options.
In Act III, help Wyll save his father and complete his task with the dragon Ansur to trigger the final romantic encounter.

How to Romance Lae'zel in Baldur's Gate 3

Lae'zel's romance can be either a short-term fling or a long-term relationship, depending on your actions and her approval.

How to Romance Lae'zel:

Raise her approval through decisive action and combat, favoring intimidation over persuasion or deception.
Once her approval is high, mention her changed demeanor at camp to initiate a one-night stand.
Maintain her approval into Act II, where she'll challenge you to a duel. Regardless of the outcome, you'll further your romance.
In Act III, your relationship's outcome depends on whether she sides with Vlaakith or Orpheus. Siding with Orpheus can lead to a visible relationship in the ending sequence.

Lae'zel Romance Special Notes:

Lae'zel does not tolerate infidelity. Cheating after the duel will end the relationship permanently.

How to Romance Halsin in Baldur's Gate 3

Halsin's romance is popular among players, offering a unique connection with his nature-centric personality.

How to Romance Halsin:

Ensure you lift the Shadow Curse before concluding Act II to avoid being locked out of romance options.
Rescue Halsin from the Goblin Camp to make him available as a companion in Act II after helping him find Thaniel.
Keep Halsin in your party and engage in actions that show kindness, reverence for nature, and fairness.
Regularly exhaust Halsin's dialogue options, focusing on discussions about former lovers.
Once his approval is high enough, Halsin will visit you at night. He will ask about any existing relationships; Shadowheart and Astarion are okay with it, while Karlach and Gale are not.

How to Romance Minthara in Baldur's Gate 3

Minthara's romance is unique as she is typically an enemy. Her path is suited for evil playthroughs or those seeking a challenge.

How to Romance Minthara:

Avoid attacking the Goblin Camp and ally with Minthara, betraying the Emerald Grove.
After defeating the grove, express honor in fighting beside her, 'Embrace the change,' and open your mind to invite her to your camp.
During the goblin party at camp, affirm your loyalty to Minthara and proceed to bed. Passing the persuasion check is crucial to avoid her attacking you.

Note: Since the official release, players report that you can knock Minthara out at the Goblin Camp and rescue her in Act II at Moonrise Towers, potentially allowing her to join your party. This method requires further verification.

Minthara Romance Special Notes:

Choosing Minthara's path drastically alters your game experience, alienating your party due to the betrayal of the Emerald Grove.

All One-Off Romance Options in Baldur's Gate 3

### How to Romance Mizora:

Keep Wyll in your party and avoid siding with Minthara.
Rescue Mizora from the Mind Flayer Colony below Moonrise Towers in Act II.
In Act III, find Mizora at Wyrm's Rock Fortress before Gortash's coronation. Discuss Duke Ravengard, prompting her to visit your camp.
When she appears at camp, rest until you see an exclamation mark over her head. Engage in dialogue, choosing "Sounds delicious, what are you suggesting?" followed by "Smile" to trigger the one-off romance scene.

How to Romance the Guardian:

Choose to protect the Guardian/Emperor between Act II and Act III.
Evolve into a Half-Ilithid to boost approval (optional but recommended).
Visit the Emperor's old hideout to learn about his past lover.
After discovering his past, choose to hold the Guardian's hand during their visit.
During the next visit, respond positively to their advances to trigger the romance scene.

How to Romance the Drow Twins:

Visit Sharess' Caress in Wyrm's Crossing during Act III.
Speak to Mamzell Amira near the bar. Complete her quest or pay directly to access the twins.
Follow her directions to the chambers to initiate the scene. Avoid asking Gale or Karlach to join if you're in a relationship with them.

How to Romance Haarlep in the House of Hope:

Reach the House of Hope and cross the 'Mystic Force Curtain' to enter the Boudoir.
Engage with Haarlep, an Incubus in Raphael's service, who offers a romantic encounter. Be aware of potential consequences if you're in a relationship, especially with Karlach.

How to Romance Naoise Nallinto:

Visit Sharess' Caress in Wyrm's Crossing and find the locked door marked by a green lantern and ivy.
Pick the lock or obtain the key from Mamzell downstairs.
Enter the chamber to find Naoise and Jara. Defeat the Mindflayer that Jara becomes, then engage with Naoise. Follow the romantic cues to initiate a brief scene, granting the Rapture buff until your next long rest.